Our Services – for individuals (18+) bereaved of a child, sibling or grandchild

Avenues of Support

A TCFV membership – gives you access to services such as…

Bereaved Parent, Sibling & Grandparent Support Centre – located in Canterbury, in Melbourne’s eastern suburbs, where you can meet other people in a similar situation. Drop in and see us.

Bereavement Support-line – a grief-support phone line provided by members who have been trained as peer-support volunteers. Call our support-line on 03 9888 4944 (Melbourne) or 1300 064 068 (Regional Victoria and interstate)  or we can call you.
Our administration line is: 03 9888 4034.

Support and social groups – run by bereaved parents, siblings, and grandparents, who have been trained as peer supporters, at various locations around Melbourne and regional Victoria. Find a group here.

Time-Out Program – A range of accommodation options to provide members needing a ‘time out’ from the grief and stress of everyday living after suffering the loss of a loved one at a low cost. For more information and a listing of services, please click here.

Magazine – Providing practical advice, comforting stories, and insights to help individuals cope and find comfort.

(Please click on the covers to see an example of our magazine. Please note that earlier editions may have outdated group meeting details. For the most up-to-date listings of group meetings, please visit here.)

One-on-one Peer Support at TCFV Centre – an opportunity to speak with another bereaved peer, often another person further along in their grief journey. More information and bookings form here.

Library and support media – TCF has a library at our centre; a website with guest book page; and is on Facebook

Grief and loss information for bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents.

For more information and to establish a membership & access our services, please visit: www.tcfv.org.au/membership/

For a PDF list of our services, please click here.

Contact The Compassionate Friends Victoria for more information and support

Bereavement Support-line Phone: (03) 9888 4944, Country Victoria & Tasmania Free Call 1300 064 068

For all other calls, contact: 9888 4034

Early reactions to grief can include:

  • Shock
  • Loss of concentration
  • Denial
  • Withdrawal from everything
  • Physical exhaustion
  • Intense emotions such as anger, uncontrollable crying, guilt and sometimes swinging from one emotion to another in short periods of time
  • Loss of appetite or emotionally overeating
  • Feeling as though you are ‘going crazy’

Unexpected situations you may have to deal with following a death may include:

  • Loss of friendships due to unrealistic expectations, insensitive remarks or being avoided
  • Dealing with the Coroner’s Court including the process involved and when to expect a report
  • Cancelling a mobile phone contract
  • Dealing with a change of circumstances such as a child who required a high level of care and lots of contact with people and all of this disappearing immediately
  • Closing Facebook and email accounts
  • Financial matters such as life insurance, debts, assets etc

Grief is like having a jagged stone inside oneself; as time passes the jagged edges gradually become smooth, but the stone remains.

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Bereaved Parent, Sibling & Grandparent Support Centre – Located in Canterbury, in Melbourne’s eastern suburbs, where you can meet other people in a similar situation. Contact Us.

Helpline, 24 hours, 365 days – 1300 064 068 / 03 9888 4944 – Grief-support phone line provided by members who have been trained as peer-support volunteers

National Online Support via Siblings Chat Service – targeting bereaved siblings (over 18 years of age) via a peer support chat service. Tell me more

Support and social groups – Run by bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents who have been trained as TCF volunteers, at various locations around Melbourne and regional Victoria. View more details.

“Time Out” Retreat AccommodationThis program provides affordable accommodation for individuals and families who need – at fairly short notice – some “time out” from their day-to-day grief. Information here.

One-on-one Peer Support at TCFV Centre – an opportunity to speak with another bereaved peer, often another person further along in their grief journey. More information and bookings form here.

Grief and loss information for bereaved parents and siblings

Bi-Annual Gathering – A weekend retreat bringing together bereaved parents and siblings with workshops and self-help sessions to assist in the grief journey. View more details.

Library and support media – TCF has a library at our centre; a website; and is on Facebook

For a PDF list of our services, please click here.

Compassionate Connections Magazine – an A4-size magazine produced quarterly with articles, poems and information relevant to bereaved parents and siblings.

For examples of our magazine, please click the magazine cover below to download and read (note: the previous title of our magazine was ‘Grieve Heal Grow’).