Bush fire survivors
who have lost their homes and possessions value their
salvaged photographs more than anything else. We bereaved
parents completely understand that. Each photograph
brings both sweet and bitter memories and in our minds-eye
a whole story appears with each. From that comes another
chapter, then another and another till we have a network
of people and events that formed our precious children's
lives.
Many of us like
to write about our children. Though we thing of it as
our personal and private way of holding our children
close within our hearts, it is also a wonderful document,
for not just this generation of family but also the
next and the next. As we all know, when we peruse our
photographs, memories flood us. We may recall the exact
moment and become lost in thought. Some details we may
remember in absolute detail. These are the most precious
things - the details - and it is these that we will
most treasure in years to come. On paper they can all
be there for many years.
'That was the day'
you may say, ' when we went fishing on the pier. We
didn't catch a thing so be bought fish and chips on
the way home .....'
The story has started.
One thing leads you on to another, further and further.
Intermingling, overlapping and transporting. The how,
whey, where and when of a happy day takes you to other
fishing trips, other holidays, perhaps the very weather,
the fish that got away, the sunburn and the zinc-creamed
noses, the lost sandal, the picnic lunch or maybe the
porpoises out further on the bay and of course, the
children's laughter.
Another photograph?
Is that a little bandage on his or her finger? Ah! Therein
lies another precious story.
As for me? Just
writing this has lifted my poor old spirits.
Please let me encourage
you to write. Perhaps you could submit a short piece
to the magazine along with a copy of a snapshot that
brought your story to mind.
It will make you
smile, and no doubt, a certain very special someone
will be smiling too.
Written by
Judy
TCF Vic, Aust.