Magazine Excerpts
    Magazine Excerpts - Apr ~ May 2004    

 
 
LIVE BUT ONE DAY AT A TIME

There are two days in every week about which we should not worry; two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

One of these days is YESTERDAY with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. YESTERDAY has passed forever beyond our control.

All the money in the world cannot bring back YESTERDAY. We cannot undo a single act we performed; we cannot erase a single word we said. YESTERDAY is gone.

The other day we should not worry about is TOMORROW with its possible adversities, its
burdens, its large promise and poor performance. TOMORROW is also beyond our immediate control.

TOMORROW'S sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds - but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in TOMORROW, for it is yet unborn.

This leaves only one day - TODAY. Any man can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you add the burdens of those two awful eternities. - YESTERDAY and TOMORROW - that we break down.

It is not the experience of TODAY that drives men mad - it is remorse or bitterness for something which happened YESTERDAY and the dread of what TOMORROW may bring.

LET US THEREFORE, LIVE BUT ONE DAY AT A TIME.

From : Healing Hope and words of comfort
by
Teen
(Member TCF Vic.)

 

   

 
 
I'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER

Our thoughts are precious gifts
our loved ones left to us
much more than earthly things
if only we'd adjust.

Our child has left to us
total new dimensions,
thoughts we must ponder now,
think without dissension.

Changed now from who I was
after your birth so new,
I'm mum who loved you so,
your years with us too few.

Our child has left us with
sad thoughts to all be filed.
We've so much more than just
sad memories of our child.

Your legacy to us,
our pain and loss of you,
will give us strength to help
all those who suffer too.

I'm different now to who I was
before you came to be.
You've given me a whole new strength
to be a whole new me.

Written by Jo
Bereaved Mum of Matt
TCF Melb, Aust.

 

 

 
 

THERE IS LIGHT

It was engulfed by suffocating blackness
Trapped, all alone, in the deep dark hole
Time seemed to drag on forever
No beginning, no end
It had just about given in to despair
As all hope and purpose seemed to be lost.

Suddenly, unexpectedly,
There was a tiny pinprick of light
Hesitantly, it crawled forward
Slowly inching towards the source of light
Which seemed to grove bigger and brighter
Moving faster in hope and anticipation
It pushed towards the gap of light

Squeezing through the opening, it burst forth
Soaring into the Brightness
All colour and movement, Beauty and Light
At last, the Butterfly was free.

by
Rosemary
TCF Melb, Aus


 

Bush fire survivors who have lost their homes and possessions value their salvaged photographs more than anything else. We bereaved parents completely understand that. Each photograph brings both sweet and bitter memories and in our minds-eye a whole story appears with each. From that comes another chapter, then another and another till we have a network of people and events that formed our precious children's lives.

Many of us like to write about our children. Though we thing of it as our personal and private way of holding our children close within our hearts, it is also a wonderful document, for not just this generation of family but also the next and the next. As we all know, when we peruse our photographs, memories flood us. We may recall the exact moment and become lost in thought. Some details we may remember in absolute detail. These are the most precious things - the details - and it is these that we will most treasure in years to come. On paper they can all be there for many years.

'That was the day' you may say, ' when we went fishing on the pier. We didn't catch a thing so be bought fish and chips on the way home .....'

The story has started. One thing leads you on to another, further and further. Intermingling, overlapping and transporting. The how, whey, where and when of a happy day takes you to other fishing trips, other holidays, perhaps the very weather, the fish that got away, the sunburn and the zinc-creamed noses, the lost sandal, the picnic lunch or maybe the porpoises out further on the bay and of course, the children's laughter.

Another photograph? Is that a little bandage on his or her finger? Ah! Therein lies another precious story.

As for me? Just writing this has lifted my poor old spirits.

Please let me encourage you to write. Perhaps you could submit a short piece to the magazine along with a copy of a snapshot that brought your story to mind.

It will make you smile, and no doubt, a certain very special someone will be smiling too.

Written by
Judy
TCF Vic, Aust.

   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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